I came across this subject while I was coming back from Goa. I was sat near window and peeping outside on mountains & greenery then suddenly my mind started thinking of future of my life. And whenever we think of future, we usually expect a lot from our future in terms of predetermining few things. Predetermined decisions increase expectations and expectations always end in frustration.
Predetermined decisions mean we may decide to have love-marriage only, we may decide characteristics of our better half and job we wish to have in future, and we may decide the life style we wish to have in future. In short, whatever we decide earlier in our life becomes our expectations. Life is very very unpredictable. We mostly do mistake in expecting moments or things in our life which are flexible. We decide to get many things in life but as life is unpredictable and what we decided is flexible that’s why we fail to get those things. We can set our personal goals but things and situation depend on others cannot be predetermined. Because what you expect from others that might not be achieved by them and you get frustrated because things couldn’t happen up to your expectations. Joy and lovable moments just happens and we should let them happen. We should not bind them in our predetermined decision (expectation). Don’t make inflexible decisions for flexible situations. People try to predict unpredictable life and when they predict life they actually build wall of expectations.
Live life as it is, don’t try to predict and don’t predetermine few things which are flexible…
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