It is funny that my thoughts were getting messed up while preparing this article. More than one patch-up & break-up have made youngsters’ love life messed up. Sometimes love life has been messed up unintentionally when partners ditched you all the time and sometimes it has been done carelessly when you ditched all your partners. Love life is not just a part of your life but a cart of your life which takes you where you deserve and a chart of your life which measures behavior & character you have.
Love life is messed up not because somebody ditched you but a wrong attitude towards relationships i.e. “let’s give It try”. Youngsters are very easy-going with relationships at a young age. They think about relationships that let’s give it try, if it will work out then it will last longer and if it doesn’t work out then we will move on. They become depressed for a while when they break up with their partners but at that moment their friends suggest them to move on and try again with different person instead wasting time in shedding tears. After the first break up they are driven to think positive and therefore they follow a proverb, “try and try you will success”. Now this proverb has been taken so wrongly that many youngsters fall in love very easily and if it doesn’t work out then they again fall in love with another person just because they obey that proverb. A relationship is not a thing which can be built by giving few trials to different persons. Today, people have a mindset of using “trial and error” method in their life. They try a relation and if they find any error then they try to resolve it in their next relation. Using “trial and error” method for living a life has involved them in many relationships which make them confused in finding their better half. Love life is not a last over of cricket match where you need one run in 6 balls but it is a last ball of the last over and you need to hit 6 to win. Just a trial to any relationship doesn’t make a strong love life. It will be trial only. But to make perfect love life, you need a right devotion for a right person. And trials are not the way of choosing the right person for your love life.
Now, obviously you will ask me the way of choosing the right person for love life. Certainly, there is no way of choosing the right person for love life. Love is a moment and it just happens…
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ahaaaaa true .....nd most effective sentences are Just a trial to any relationship doesn’t make a strong love life. It will be trial only. But to make perfect love life, you need a right devotion for a right person. And trials are not the way of choosing the right person for your love life.
ReplyDeleteKeep Posting ....So awl ppl can understand that love is not only the trial and error ....but it should be try and catch ...it means if u find any error then just catch it nd resolve it....
thnks a lot dear...tc...
Deletecame across your blog through facebook.. you are right and you are talking about the crowd but within the crowd you will find individuals who are willing to wait for the right person and not waste time and go through the scars and wounds of several heartbreaks..because for those who really connect at an emotional level would rather keep oneself shielded and not subject one's heart and soul to such kinda relationships. Anyways blabbered a lot..:)
ReplyDeleteyou are right tht within the crowd there is individual who wait for right person. But there is more possibility of long lasting relationship if two broken hearts fall in love with each other...
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